One of the best things that Gregor and I do with the kids is to have special one-on-one time with each of them periodically (ideally every weekend, but it doesn't always work out that way). Gregor came up with the great idea for these cards (he's going to love that I am giving him credit for this!). We keep them on the refrigerator and they go in order... Brooke and Mom, Larkin and Dad, Hudson and Mom, Nellie and Dad, Brooke and Dad... etc etc etc.
When it is their turn, we try to think of something special to do. It is usually something that would be too crazy or too expensive to do all together. It could be something that would just be too hard to do with all the age ranges or it might just be common errand that is made special because someone gets to do it alone (Brooke and I went to super walmart one time, and you would have though it was the most fantastic thing ever!). The quality time is so precious. The kids are so excited to have all the attention and just don't stop talking. They are so well behaved and just so happy! It really makes me realize how special they all truly are. This past weekend was Brooke and Mom day. We hung out at a shopping area in town...we went to lunch, a bookstore, ice-cream and anthropologie. We had the best time! Hudson and I usually go to the movies (one of our shared hobbies), and on our last special day, Larkin and I went to play putt-putt. Gregor and I envision these cards still being rotated when the kids are in high school, and even older. When there are four kids, I think any amount of alone quality time is priceless. Some of our friends are actually doing this with their kids too! It really is one of our better ideas.
